Life as it comes..

In this fast paced world ,this is something we hear more than often -the "make or break situation" . From trying to get into a good college to landing good projects at a work place. In fact it all starts from a period before our birth ..from that 1 sperm out of many which battles its way into our 'making' !! But what saddens me is that we are so adapted to it that we are now capable of only the extremes . We just cannot handle the average or mediocre or simplicity in anything . We make it worse by applying the same rule to even relations . There is a beautiful old saying that is there to show us the difference in impacts of choosing the extremes : it says "If our nails grow long then we just cut the nails and not our entire finger or hand" . Why can't we act accordingly? If there are misunderstandings in a relation then we need to cut our ego and not the entire relation itself ! We are now becoming capable of being someone's best friend or th

As far as I know, I am a confused soul. My world is ruled by contradictions .The thoughts in my mind contradict the feelings in my heart and vice versa. The brave face I sometimes put up is to hide those fears in my heart and coldness I show out is to support certain decisions of the mind . So what is this contradiction ?? It arises when 2 events are proposed simultaneously but are opposite by nature i.e. they give out 2 conclusions on analysis ,both inverse of each other . If your heart says that " let destiny  play its part and you relax"  for which your mind says  " destiny  is the bridge that you build to what you want and so work your ass off !! " ,then you are in this classic contradicting situation ! After giving out my definition of contradiction ,I would go on to give solutions as to how we should deal it too , only if I myself knew it !                                                 I dont .......... Those tear drops of happiness

The already hot early morning of mid-summer April day was a usual day in Aman and Neha's life ,usual in the context of how both of them didn't expect anything unusual to happen on that day . The morning was fresh outside ,sunny and bursting with the zealous orange vibes but their home's beautiful french windows were curtained and the bread on the dining table had turned yellow and stale . Awkward and gloomy airs filled the room and the temperature despite their newly purchased air conditioner being switched on, matched with the temperature outside . The cream and brick-red painted walls of their apartment on the 11th floor ,had witnessed constant fights from few weeks. The 3-yr old wedding photograph of them ,which hung  in their bedroom and had them smiling together ,seemed a long gone and forgotten moment of their life. The night before also they had a heated argument on a trivial matter after which he rejected her cooking and she didn't feel like eating and they